Our Staff

Singing Hills Memorial Park Staff

Thesa Miele
Thesa Miele
Family Service Advisor
Thesa Miele
Family Service Advisor

Thesa Alejandro is a devoted and compassionate professional family service advisor. Thesa has been working in the funeral industry since 2018. She has over 2 years of experience working at Glen Abbey Mortuary as a Funeral Service Director. She is highly motivated in delivering exceptional services to families.


Her goal is to help grief-stricken families and celebrate the lives of their loved ones. Thesa has over 20 years of professional experience working in the social services field and serving the homeless and those in need in the community. She has a bachelor’s degree in Social Sciences from Virginia Wesleyan University.

Iris Wise
Iris Wise
Family Service Advisor
Iris Wise
Family Service Advisor

Iris Wise grew up on the shores of Imperial Beach, has been serving the community of San Diego as a funeral professional since 2016. 


Starting her journey as a former Funeral Service Director for Dignity Memorial, Iris made the choice after switching her career in hospitality at Hilton San Diego Bayfront of seven years to continue her path as a humanitarian by help those in need during their most difficult time of their life. 


Iris is an active local artist, and has been featured in art festivals in the city of Chula Vista, and can be found in the galleries of Barrio Logan, and North Park area. Her artistic background has allowed her to help create beautiful memories of closure for families by curating unique celebration of life services and designing everlasting memorial markers for loved ones.

Yvette Lynch
Yvette Lynch
Family Service Advisor
Yvette Lynch
Family Service Advisor


Daniel McAvoy
Daniel McAvoy
Family Service Advisor
Daniel McAvoy
Family Service Advisor


Syltoya Sterling
Syltoya Sterling
Family Service Advisor
Syltoya Sterling
Family Service Advisor


Jack Matthias Jr.
Jack Matthias Jr.
Cemetery Development Manager
Jack Matthias Jr.
Cemetery Development Manager


Shelby Lane
Shelby Lane
General Manager
Shelby Lane
General Manager

Shelby has an ecletic background from entertaining troops overseas with her all girl band to managing a law firm. She has been working in cemeteries since 2020 when she felt the calling. Every person who is in this field, usually has a story about their calling to this type of work and Shelby is no different. Shelby loves to help people and is highly passionate about cemeteries and  pre-arrangements.